..i steal this post from kEnnY's bLog..
..juz feel like ranting abt it..
..dun think too much..
..my guy still consider treating me not bad..
..even though sometime he is quite a blockhead..
..dearie i am not complaining here..
..What a girl really wan from a guy..
..the guy's point of view..
MOST IMPORTANT: She wants someone who will be willingly to listen to her problems, whines and complaints and grumbles UNCONDITIONALLY.
Be her emotional support
Be a gentleman even when an argument, quarrel and pillow fighting breaks out.
PROTECT her heart man.
Shower her with lots of love ok that is why she agrees to be enslaved into your heart guys!
Be a man and tell her the REAL REASON why you want a breakup. Dun give stupid and crappy reasons like "NO time". Please release her from the suffering at the soonest time and that can only be achieved by telling the REAL REASON. The only reason is YOU DUN LOVE HER ANYMORE so PLEASE say it ok thanks dun be a jerk.
Be there for her whenever you can if she needs you cause, you never know, it can enhance and further strengthen your bond together.
..My point of view..
All of the above are correct!!!
Say and do the right things at the right time!!
(..dun say anything that is irrelevant to wat the girls are saying..)
Shower her with kisses and hugs..at any moment of the day
Say sweet stuffs which is realistic
Dun promise her anything unless u are sure u are able to do it..
Dun do childish and silly things in front of ur girl's friend..
(..u dun wan her friends to say u are silly and look like a kid..)
Give her freedom and space like u need urs..
Whatever u wish her to do..Pls make sure u are able to do it first..
(..it applies the same to girls ya..Dun expect the impossible..)
Dun expect her to do the things ur ex can..
(Every single girl is unique and special.)
Girls have PMS and mood swings easily..not that they wan it to..
(..guys..if u cannot take it at that point..pls do not say any hurtful words..)
If your gf is angry..Give her a hug or kiss to make her feel better..
Dun assume or guess wat ur girl is angry abt!!!
(..even if she dun say now..she will say it one fine day..)
If u think that the rship dun work out at all..kindly tell her the reason..
(..it will be better before she realise u are flirting behind her back..Angry girls are scary..)
Be truthful always..
(..if she look pretty..tell her that..if she is not..tell her too..)
No girl will stay beside a guy if she dun love the guy..
(this do not applies to ppl whom have more than one guy or girl)
DUN promise a girl things and not do it!!
(pls dun say for the sake of saying..it hurts sometimes if u are not able to do it..)
NEVER let a girl walk behind u!!
(we are suppose to be ur gf..so walk beside us..)
If u wan the girl to have u as the one and only..
u MAKE SURE u aso treat her as the one and only..
Learn to trust her like u wan her to trust u..
Girls think more den u guys do..
(guys if u think that is not a problem..it does not mean it is not a problem at all)
..it is juz my point of view here..
..anymore of it can tag me at the tagboard..
..if i am wrong..
..feel free to correct me..